In the dictionary, the term “waif” means a wanderer, a castaway, a lost person or child with no home, but is that all a heroine marked with that title could be?
While she projects an innocence worthy of infants, making those around her feel the need to shelter and protect her, The Waif can surprise us all with her inner strength and endurance. She is naïve, yet hardy. Her adaptable nature makes her an easy target for conflict. She’ll easily fit in with her captors, not fighting back but enduring whatever she must until her rescuer appears.
With an ethereal quality to drift through life, The Waif’s true goal is for happiness and a family. Ever since childhood, she has searched for love and acceptance in the gaze of others. Quick to be the loyal friend, she was often disappointed when betrayal or jealousy invaded the friendships of childhood, leaving her once more – alone. In her eagerness for love, she would often follow the advice of others without thought – be it her mother, father, a teacher, whomever, following their directives in search of approval. Forever searching for the unattainable, none of her achievements touched her inner soul.
Many may view this woman as weak, lost and submissive. But our Waif has qualities that allow her to shine in her own way:
- Pure – She is the golden Madonna. Unspoiled and authentic, there is nothing fake about this woman. What you see is whole-heartedly true. The harsh cruelty of the world never sinks in to depress and ruin this woman.
- Generous – She will be the first to pass out alms to the poor, volunteer to stand out in the snow and ring the bell at Christmas time, or donate her worldly goods to charity. She goes out of her way to help those in need. Since she’s typically in a bind and requires saving herself, it is understandable that she would want to help others like her.
- Sharp – While the Waif will wait to be rescued, there are times when appearances can be deceiving. Behind her mask of acceptance lies a mind churning with plans. When backed into a corner, she manages to figure out a Plan B and strikes back when least expected.
And just as with all human nature, The Waif has her flaws:
- Easy Prey – Her too trusting personality allows her to be easily influenced by those around her. Her naiveté and submissiveness quickly allows her to be taken advantage of, trusting the opinions of others instead of herself.
- Passive – Quick to run along rather than fight, The Waif will look for the easy, non-violent way out of a situation. Her fear can soon take over any desire to escape, providing the control freaks in her life with an attractive victim.
- Vulnerable – Yearning for love, our Waif tends to rush into relationships, hoping and praying that this is “the one”. Because of her insecurity, she often finds herself in trouble – stuck in the wrong relationship because she didn’t trust her own opinion to begin with.
One example of The Waif is a woman every girl knows, dreamt of being as a child, and still longs for her own fairy godmother to appear and make everything perfect:
Cinderella
Abused and humiliated by her wicked stepmother and stepsisters, Cinderella touches the heart and soul of every person who endures the hardships life has dealt with her. Remaining ever gentle and kind, she accepts the situation she’s in and merely longs for a happier life.

Another example of The Waif – and a personal favorite movie heroine of mine – is Thelma Dickinson (aka Geena Davis) in Thelma and Louise.What woman hasn’t watched that movie and longed for the adventure and excitement of a road trip with their best friend? Let’s leave off the almost-rape scene of course, and the dying at the end – but definitely keep in that hot hotel scene with Brad Pitt! Woohooo!!

Sorry, got off track there – Anyways, Thelma is The Waif incarnate. Abused and rejected by her husband, Thelma is prodded and pushed into taking off on a weekend getaway by her best friend, Louise. Unknowingly, this journey is the first step to setting Thelma free. Free of the dull and oppressive existence – free of the crappy life she endured with her good-for-nothing husband. Thelma begins to really live – though her too-trusting nature and pure heart tend to still get her into trouble.
(Though I bet I’d let Brad Pitt steal my money in exchange for one night with him….**sigh**)
I hope you enjoyed today’s post and will continue to join us here at Author’s Studio as we finish up our wonderful heroines. We love to here from our readers so please feel free to leave a comment and if there’s any other WAIF examples you may have in mind, please do share!









